Helloo,

so there's a guy I went on a few dates with. All seemed to be going okay. But I decided we should stay friends because he wasn't supportive of my anxiety at all and I'm really not sure a romantic relationship with a man like that would benefit me at all. So that's all good, bullet dodged.

Anyway, since being "friends" I've had a horrible conflicted feeling - did I mess up? Should I have given him a chance? He used to like me SO maybe now that he thinks I'm not intetested in a relationship, he's not gonna bother investing anything in me at all, even if there is the opportunity that our apparent friendship could grow into something more.

The problem - On whatsapp, it shows you when someone was last online and when someone read your message. There were two messages left unread from a conversation last night around 11 pm. He's been online throughout today but hasn't once checked my messages - so he's totally ignoring me?? They were questions too so they generally expect answers.

the solution?? We used to text all the time when he thought I liked him. Now since I broke it off its been very weird. I'm thinking about asking him something like: I was gonna message you earlier about meeting up but saw you'd been online and hadn't replied to me - we definitely do not talk as much. Is this because I said we should just be friends? Things were different before that conversation.

What do you all think?? I really want answers from him. If he doesn't care to talk to me I'd rather end contact with him all together than dwell on the what ifs.