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Originally Posted by velcro003
See, I knew T would be relatively un-fazed by that topic 
Also, he's funny! "The ridgy bits on the outside," I snort-laughed at that.
My T says fleeting thoughts are pretty normal in general, so there's that. I don't even BOTHER to talk about those sort of thoughts with my T...there mostly just there. |
Yep, you were right! Glad you got a laugh from him! He can be quite funny at times.
I feel like ex-T was really skittish about those sorts of thoughts, so I tended not to talk about them with her--I get the sense (from what she said) that she may have had some maternal countertransference going on, so that could have played a role. So I think that's why I worried about telling T, because of her. I had fears that he'd overreact or something. (Ex-MC seemed to react like your T, thinking those types of thoughts are very common.)