Thank you all, so much, for your responses - we've had the conversation and yeah, he's moved on which is totally fine. I dont think this is anything to be upset about because as said before, he's not at all supportive of my issues, like golden_eve said we need a partner who will understand us and support us at the same time. He's impatient and generally insensitive, and knowing he moved on/stopped bothering to contact me frees me to move on myself, like Christina suggested, which is really refreshing. No more theorising.

Only trouble Is, I hate whenever it doesn't go well with a date. Even if he's not right for me there's that horrible dread that investing in someone who SEEMS okay could lead to disappointment, you know??

Divine1966, as far as friends go, I thought maybe a friendship with him could have grown into something more - because he was so open about liking me, I felt maybe I hadn't given him enough of a chance.

Anyway, we've had the conversation and he doesn't have the same perspective/attitude towards friendships/relationships as I do. So now there will be no relationship nor a friendship with him which I'm okay with. Why purse either with a man who isn't supportive NOR understanding?????

Thanks again everyone, hope you're all are okay