I am struggling to see what exactly she is qualified to be.

A therapist she is not.

I don't even know what to say about her child abusing "friend".

It's like she has taken some aspects of being a therapist and applied them to her friendships.

This constant "I" And "My" do this, in an attempt to invalidate your thoughts, feelings and experiences is just a no no.

You have to forgive your abuser?
Do you though?

It's like she likes the idea of being a T but has no idea how to actually apply the theory.

Hope your able to find a T better suited to your needs.