i'm so sorry this is happening, mindmechanic. the worst ruptures i've had with my t have been because of money/finances. i find it very very unhelpful when for example she tells me that i need to 'make more money' or 'use credit cards'. i understand how you feel to be told to sort out your money situation. i mean cripes!!

i wish i knew what to say to help you feel better about it all.