Well to follow up on my DH's 38 male cousin, 6 months later, still living with us in our small 2 br home with our two daughters (age 9, 8) & 8 mo old baby. We are also expecting our fourth child come December. Did I mention I am homemaker?
I don't understand how my DH just doesn't see the damage that this situation is causing our marriage. He stays late out in the backyard most nights hanging out with him smoking weed. Last night I was up from 2-4am thinking about what is the best plan of action. I finally woke my DH to tell him how i felt. That we need to kindly ask him to move out within 30 days. DH did not take it well.
This morning there was a lot of tension between us until right before he went to work. I was already exhausted from lack of sleep. Everything just burst out of us and we ended up yelling at each other to shut up, him calling me names, me slamming the door at his face asking him to leave, and crying for some time. I had never done that. He has spoken to me like that a number of times.
My biggest pain is feeling that he places his cousin's needs before mine.