Just be honest with her on your reasons to not get married right now.
Maybe she just wants to make sure your not wasting her time ? Lousy way for her to go about it.
As for your medical and her disability it can make a huge change in your benefits.
Maybe a promise ring would help if you think it might work out ? Might be her just wanting commitment.
Just be honest, it’s hard sometimes but necessary.
Good luck
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