I can sometimes feel attracted to my therapist even if it´s not that I would want to be in any kind of sexual situation with her. I'm not drawn to women (I´m a woman myself) in general but I can still feel a bit attracted to my T.


Now when it´s summer she has a couple of times wore t-shirts with some cleavage and when leaning forward as she sometimes does when we talk the obvious happens. Then "too much" is visible and as she sits close to me I see parts of her breasts and it´s not that I stare or would want to stare but it´s impossible to not see anything. I mean, I can´t begin to look at the wall instead of looking at her.

She looks good for her age, I can also feel a bit "attracted" to her hairstyle and her appearance in general. This can lead to me imagining her in sexual situations I see in a romantic movie, thinking like "that´s perhaps how my T is like in such a sexual situation".


My thoughts don´t go there when I meet with her but between sessions and I know they would easily fade if she did or said something that I didn´t like.


I really hope she doesn´t notice if I "by accident" look at her chest. I also sometimes look at her hands and her wedding ring, that´s a bit embarrassing as well.


Can anyone relate to this with a therapist of same sex?