Hi All,

I dont know how to deal with this but here it goes ... me and my GF have been together for 5 years, we have a 3 years old. Our relationship is like 2 roommate, there is no intimacy or romance. We had sex twice in the last 3 years. She has self esteem issue causing her to be self conscious and has no libido at all. She never been that sexual from the start but I thought she would warm up eventually but it got worse. Anyways we have other incompatibly as well but the reason I am here is to confess that a few weeks ago at a family party, I was terribly drunk and I kissed her brothers wife, grabbed her *** and all. She kept saying she wanted a boy toy on the side and all. After the fact I felt like ****. I don't know why I did this, I wish I could take it back. If it would be a stranger, I would tell my GF and move on but I can't tell her this, it will destroy her and her brothers marriage most likely. it would affect the whole family.

You can judge me all you want, that's alright but how would you deal with this being in my shoes?