So I know some of you have saw my posts, but for a recap. I am in a verbally abusive relationship.

Last night we went out for a few drinks, and he asked if I wanted a pizza. I said sure. The waitress was rather inattentive, and took a long time to come up to us and walked away after he asked for the pie before we could add the stuff. I had mentioned wanting to add jalapenos, and a side of hot sauce and ranch. He said he didn't want the peppers, and I was teasing with him saying he could pick it off. I didn't think he was upset, and he could have asked for half. He has eaten them before and he has said he liked them. I thought we were just goofing around.

Well, we got our hot sauce and ranch and he kept making comments about how they were going to spit in the food, how he couldn't believe I made them do that when they were close to closing etc. Just really nasty. The pizza came, and he wanted another drink. The waitress never came back. They were obviously tired looking and not really paying attention. He got angry, and said he wasn't eating more until he got another drink. I said that was fair. He eventually ended up getting the manager and we got the pie for free.

He kept saying it was my fault we got ignored, because I asked for peppers, and condiments on the side. I had annoyed them, and that it was because of my "extra stuff". I said it wasn't my fault, and just to forget about it and at least we got a free pizza.

He SLAMMED the pie out of my hands so hard the bag went flying across the mall. He began cursing and screaming at me. At home I was "gutless" for not talking when the manager came, I was an ahole, a horrible person, not a good friend, and needed to move out and that the relationship was over.

He then said how he owed the bartender and apology, and how she probably just walked away because he was "easy" and thought the order was over. I am a "princess" and want to be catered to. Again blaming me and no apology to me for cursing or belittling me...but he wanted to say sorry to the bartender.

Anyway... I have decided I am done putting up with his blaming and abusive behavior. I am not sure whether I should tell him I am leaving, or I should take off of work and move out with out his knowledge. He is prone to these rages and very unpredictable.