We've been married 18 years now. He will be 54 in a couple months. He has been working a lot the last few years with a really crappy schedule. I guess I thought it would be better since he's doing more of a 40 hour week instead of a 70 hour now.

Trying to be understanding, but not always succeeding. I get so little time with him and I think I run him too much when I do get time to spend with him.