I officially closed my checking account and paycheck went to my husband's account. I just cannot manage m9ney. I'm ashamed that at 48 I can't do better. I've accepted defeat. It's for the best though.

We've had separate accounts for years and he has had to bail me out several times. I'm surprised he hasn't left me. This last time was bad. He had to do a debt consolidation loan. This way I have no way to **** things up again.

HUGS for everyone!!