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Old May 31, 2018, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
So it feels safer to me in a way.

Edited to add: Forgot to mention I've also been seeing him twice a week for the past few months, which has also really helped. I'd been used to seeing ex-T and ex-MC in the same week, so as he put it, my therapy time had basically been cut in half by seeing MC less (like once a month for a bit), then terminating. So he offered twice a week if I wanted, so I'm doing that for now.

I’m sorry you had such painful experiences with *two* previous therapists. I like how you frame it in terms of safety. That’s not a descriptor I had come up with, but it feels like it fits.

I’ve also considered asking for an additional session per week instead of paying for emails, but also have a fear that she’ll think there’s no real need for it. I’m not in crisis, I’m functioning just fine. But of course I can’t know that she would reject either proposal without asking!
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight