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Originally Posted by Erebos
Well sometimes things happen that point out to us just how screwed up things have gotten.
Do I think you should go all confessional? No.
I think you have realised something has to give, now you just need to figure out what that is.
You and your partner need to have a long talk, maybe mediation, or couple counselling.
If your partner isn't up for changing how things are you have a tough call to make, since I assume you don't feel you can continue as things are indefinitely.
And this isn't just about you your girlfriend is obviously not getting the most out things.
Here's wishing you all the best.
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Counselling maybe but she always has been passive and non affectionate so I dont think counseling will change how she is .... I need someone to have conversation on different topics ... everything that interest me or talk about ... she almost never has much to say about. I don't feel the support from her on my emotional state or my success ... she is not there for me physically or mentally ... no hugs, no touching, no appreciation ... I dont think she loves me anymore but she doesn't know it ...