My ex T got watery eyes two times that I knew of. Both times we were talking about childhood sa. T was just quiet and said "I'm sorry that happened to you." The moments passed, no harm done.

Current T got tears in her eyes one time. I can't remember what it was about but she looked really sad.

All of the times it happened we were talking about very sad abuse things but with no affect and in all three times I think the Ts were reacting to that more than anything.

I would really not like for any T of mine to properly cry. I don't mind if thy get tears in their eyes for a brief moment. I can cope with that. But anything more than that would feel grossly inappropriate to me.