Thank you. I am actually going travelling now without him which took a huge amount to do, and he strongly resisted and became extremely upset but it’s happening. I have told him we will meet up in 3 months and he’s set on that but I’m looking forward to the break even though the guilt is killing me. He really feels like a child and I feel fully responsible for him, so it’s nice to hear from someone else whose been through similar! Can I ask what happened to your ex fiancé in the end? Did you get over the guilt of feeling responsible?