My t is 25 years older than me and completely straight. I have had relationships with both men and women and sometimes when I look at my t she takes my breath away.
She often wears very revealing tops and very elegant dresses.
Sometimes I fantasise about my t. We have talked about these fantasies- y finds them amusing and likes hearing about them. She always welcomes anything to do with the relationship.
Sometimes when t laughs and I don’t mean in an unkind or cruel way, she laughs at my imagination and the situations I put us both in, I talked about my fantasies about my ex t too and t nearly fell off her chair laughing. I got very upset and t explained she was not laughing at me just the situation.
Anyway, I think it’s completely normal for both gay and straight women to fantasise about their t because it’s a safe relationship, one that will never happen so we can imagine all sorts.