Do not make room in your life for those who try to hinder. If that is family it's not so cut and dry. VO if the only person you have to depend on is you than make the best of that. If option A is not available than go with an alternate option that you have control over. I have had the experience myself of family not getting it so now I have different boundaries with those family who cannot support me for whatever reason. Blaming yourself or blaming others does not help. It's just another wall to bump into which keeps you from moving forward. You can make the life you want with or without your parents support.