The thread title is, Is this my Life?

I think it's easy enough to ruminate on the built up resentment. Of course as you have time to dwell the anger towards him seaps out. Gosh, I still have days, 8 years post divorce where I find myself angry with my ex and the lot in life that I've been dealt. It's ok to embrace those moments.

Certainly at the age of 2, it's improbable that your daughter is going to be ruined as you try to navigate through your pain and emotions surrounding her father. I'd imagine that as the years go on and you get to where you want to be, there will be a wealth of wisdom to pass on to her. You're human.