Thanks. What did your T say when you revealed things about your sexual experience? I think it was brave to share it with your T. Iīm planning to do that myself in a future not so far away but then I want to feel "ready" for it as this is an issue to me and something I want to come to terms with.
Iīm ashamed as well but I donīt want to leave therapy not having spoken about it but thatīs differ from person to person of course.
Thanks for the suggestion about messaging you, Iīll keep that in mind.
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Originally Posted by DP_2017
I never want to think of him in that way, so no.... but I relate to you in the 0 experience area and I am nearly 40. My T knows but we haven't talked about it much. It carries too much shame with it for me so I usually shut down. I am well aware that since he was married for over a decade, he had a lot of sex, so it's not something I'd be shocked about but I just don't wanna visually imagine.
Anyway, since we are both rare in our cases, feel free to message me anytime if you wanna talk. I totally get where you are coming from
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