Thanks. Yes, his referall to that song must mean something to him, or else he wouldnīt have listened to the lyrics that well. That's my spontaneous thought about it anyway. As he also asked you to listen to it.
I think the situation described in that song most likely happens to many couples but my mind easily wonders to her having good sex, not bad, her having learned a lot about sex so she and her partner can be there for each other sexually.
But on the other hand, I know they live in a flat with her husbandīs son who is around 20 in age and that also makes me think that thereīs not so much space to enjoy sex as if she lived alone with her husband only. But thatīs of course just a speculation.
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I kind of thought about it in session this week. In the previous session, related to something we were talking about (sex in my marriage), T said it reminded him of this song "Business Time" by the Flight of the Conchords, that I should listen to it because it was funny. I listened to it when I got home that session. It's basically about a...very unsexy encounter between a married couple, with foreplay being brushing teeth and taking out recycling, then the actual encounter lasts 2 minutes, and the wife is like "Is that it?" and the guy's like "I know you want more but I'm sleepy."
I told T in session Thursday that I'd listened to it, and that it was quite funny. He said, "It's a perfect depiction of suburban married sex." T is married and lives in the suburbs, so...it made me think, "Is that what his sex life is like?" (And also kinda made me wonder if, like the guy in the song, he leaves his socks on during...)
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