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Originally Posted by Amyjay
Maybe you could recognize what a good job she is doing? That is a big job and a very painful one too. How awful to have nothing but suicidal feelings and also be hated for it.  |
Yeah my last therapist tried to get me to be curious about it but I have been unable to feel anything but distain and hatred for it as it causes me so much misery and eventual it could cause me death.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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