I’ve met my husband on a dating site. So clearly he wasn’t looking for hook ups. My daughter met her boyfriend on a dating site as well (they live together now but she is no rush to marry yet as she is a widow). So clearly men are not on dating sites to just get laid.

But some are. If my now husband told me I am perfect during first phone conversation I’d run for the hills. He is not an idiot. Men who are looking for getting laid say nonsense to 5 women and they run but 6th will think he is a soul mate and now he can get couple of rolls in a hay.

I think most men who are looking for hookups are on free sites. They don’t want to pay for a membership as they aren’t looking for quality.