Sorry for the delay of my response here; I've been out of town!

I currently have a male therapist however I'm not sure he has the experience to really help me in this regard; I may consider looking into someone else who specializes in this area. The idea of group therapy is a bit intimidating and embarrassing to me but I suppose it's a an option.

I think you are likely right with regards to getting outside of myself. Volunteering and being more social in general seem like they could be a good idea to get out of my own head. I also get your point when it comes to my ability to communicate and be friendly with women. It seems like it should be an asset. I feel like it ultimately sort of goes to waste though when I'm unable to connect with women romantically/sexually. That's the real fundamental issue. I am more than capable of developing friendships with women but it never leads elsewhere.

It just hurts a lot to see how my peers have the ability to get other people to love them and want them while I do not. I don't really know how to adequately describe my pain save to say that it is deep. And I don't say that flippantly or while actively trying to be a victim. I think it's just hard for me to shake after so many years of rejection while being constantly reminded publicly of other people's success.

But I'll keep working at it. Thanks guys.