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Originally Posted by starrysky
I say don't go to her with your issues unless you want her to change the subject, start talking about herself, or want to feel like she doesn't care. It sounds like you've known her a long time. Has she always been this way? Perhaps keep her as a friend, but try to accept the reality of where she is in being able to be supportive. You can also ask her what's up and why she does that, if you think it might be helpful.
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Hello,
No, she hasn’t always been this way. Looking back and comparing the moment I met her up to now, I see she’s definitely not the same person. I don’t know wha happened, but it’s crept up. It started a few months ago when she dragged a problem out that was easily resolved.
I think she doesn’t care about either of us to be honest, not just me. We have a group chat, and when one of our friends wants reassurance, she’s never there. She’s only involved afterwards. In my opinion, I think she’s got big headed.
But yeah, I’m going to step away from her for a while. I’m not going to pat her shoulder when she needs help.