I had so many dreams crushed that I just gave up dreaming...putting all my eggs in one basket...

Now my approach is “things that I would like to do”- so if it doesn’t happen, it’s no big deal.

I’ve noticed that I can get so caught up on the thing that will fix everything...and when it falls through...everything crashes. I guess you can call that other things....but I can romanticize with all earnest to be greatly disappointed. Sometimes I wonder if I’m borderline as well.