I can see where the "new" way might be helpful but I think it also depends on how much cooperation and control you have between parts. I am the host and I don't remember much of anything relative to the 55 years I have been on this planet. 99% of my first 19 years are held by others and they have shared very little. I know some of the worst of it but the fragments are very small.
My T talks to whoever comes out to talk. He will usually ask to speak to me before the end of session. When I don't know an answer to something he will tell me to ask around. Sometimes this is successful, sometimes not. Sometimes he will ask to speak directly to the one who is providing the answers. It all depends.
I don't think my others would appreciate not being able to come out and talk if they want to especially since they have always been welcomed in the past. I think telling them they can now only talk through me in session would cause an uprising.
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