Quote:
Originally Posted by Erebos
It sounds like H & M probably compared notes about you and have both decided on non-contact is best.
I suspect your interpretation of the situation and theirs probably differs quite alot.
It sounds like it could easily have felt like a manipulative environment. comparing one against the other.
I am not sure there is anything you can do. They clearly don't want confrontation.You say H is calm thoughtful and considered so it's unlikely they just came to this decision on a whim.
You could perhaps appeal for closure, an explanation with a promise not to continue to chase the situation if they agreed.
I can see your obviously quite stunned and hurt about it, but somewhere along the line you seem to have missed something. Perhaps a conversation you had in the weeks leading up to them blocking you.?
It's tough to make a call with only one side of the story, hope you are able to get your closure and move on.
|
Yes, I agree with you the most. I could handle people and their whims, you could never trust a person more than 30%, I have always held on to that. Not even your own family. That is the rule in the world. But what I wanted was an explanation. They can leave if that is what ungrateful people manage to do, I can tend to that kind of hurt well. It is not my flaw, it is theirs. But when they do not explain to me why, that is being selfish. Despite knowing me very well, and all the happiness we have shared, all the good and bad times, the least of courtesy they could have given me is an explanation. A goodbye. I also liked how you noted that the hint could have been in the conversations, I did skim through some, but I guess I could read through again to have an idea of what might have happened. But even then, H blocking me is the one that doesn't fit the most. That is the opposite of his character. I could have murdered 100 people and H would have talked to me and asked, instead of blocking me without explanation. It is the thing that was most off about it. And what worried me the most. Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.
And also, I have real friends. We are all 24 by coincidence, in university or H doing his masters. I never went online to look for friends, never wanted an online friend, never liked the idea, and a skeptic at it. But voila, life is an irony. Gave me 2 online bestfriends, one after the other, and they made me happier than I ever was even when I know I shouldn't have been too happy.