(((((muffy)))))) cruelty is a damaging thing in all its forms imo... "MEAN PEOPLE SUCK" is a bumper sticker... have you seen it?

that and Free Tibet are a few choice faves of mine...

but not to derail the thread... kindness heals imo... a listening ear.... connectedness...

course ya know i caution you all the time to be careful, so im gonna try and be careful about what others might think

... words can be interpreted so many ways.. i think gentleness is the best way to avoid flames and triggers...

its a challenge tho when a person feels they do have to stick up for themselves and do something they dont enjoy or feel comfortable with...

history is something to learn from tho for me... i think thats where the growth can happen, from the lessons... now you are wiser (was it possible : ) and learned...

praying for growth.. we are still alive : )