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Originally Posted by Susie72
Hi to everyone . Im from Oxford England and have currently started counselling . I went private as i am a mature student nurse and i dont want an NHS file on me hanging around !! . I had 6 weeks free counselling organised through the GP . The guy was great got me so well . It had to end as thats your limit . I now pay privatley and had to start at the beginning . In the first session i rushed and felt i said to much about my past as a child . I wanted to be where i was with the last counsellor . I cant take bk what i said but 2 sessions later i feel the same i just want to take back some of the abuse i mentioned and i dont know why !! As i wanted to say it . Im due to see him again tomorrow and he seems keen for me to move on but i feel i need to go bk . He seems quite adamant for me to move on . What do i do ???
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Hi Suzie. Sorry you've had to start again.
It makes perfect emotional sense to me that you'd try to get back to the place you left it with your previous therapist. I'd probably have done the same.
It's not easy deciding when and how much to say about childhood abuse.
Do you have a limited number of sessions you can afford with the new T? Just wondering if that's why he's rushing things.
Either way, he needs to stop! Back up! He really has to listen to what you are saying.
That's my opinion.
Hugs.