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Originally Posted by NP_Complete
I get that feeling completely. Feeling like a job and being a burden is something I have struggled with too. Is that something you could discuss with your therapist? I think I finally understand that I'm not a burden to mine. He's had to tell me several times that I'm not and there are still times when I feel that way, but it was always worth it to discuss those feelings with him.
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Yeah, I tell her everything. I've been with T for 3 years now. But I can't seem to feel 100% secure with her. Something always happens that makes me doubt her. Yes, every single problem has been resolved thus far. But still I worry. This is the second time in 3 years that she changed a boundary on me. First time was in the beginning. She told me to call her every time I wanted to SH. Well back then it was daily. That of course didn't work for her, so we changed that. That was understandable. For some reason this isn't understandable to me.
Eta: I do understand wanting to get away from work. But emotionally, I then feel like I'm just her work. Emotionally, I'm not understanding.