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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
That makes me feel like I'm just a job. Like I'm a burden. It's not fair to give something to someone, and then take it away.
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I'm sorry you're hurting. It may not FEEL fair, but it is fair. For example, I could give someone consent to have an intimate relationship with me, but I also reserve the right to take that consent back at anytime. And it wouldn't necessarily be that I'm saying "no" to the other person, but rather I'm saying "no" to the activity. Can you see the parallels?