People aren't perfect. Yes people gossip. Yes people sometimes disappoint us. This is all part of life. When you are taking inventory of your friends qualities, try to focus on their positive points. Everyone has negatives but is that truly who they are? Or is it merely a minor flaw you can learn to overlook or manage? If a person is truly rotten, then by all means get them out of your life. But I would be suprised if you find that was the majority rather than the minority. If you tend to be drawn to the same types of people that aren't the greatest of character, then maybe it is time to find out why and then change your lifestyle or approach. Good people ARE out there.