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Originally Posted by justafriend306
To claim they aren't 'responsible' for their behaviour is to claim the woman somehow is. There is no excuse for this sort of attitude. You seem to suggest that social ineptitude gives carte blanche for abhorrent behaviour. No. The difficulties these men have in cultivating sexual encounters has nothing to do with a feminist conspiracy and agenda. It is entirely owing to their behaviour and attitudes. To say they can't help themselves is to say the women they target deserve it.
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You're unfairly overreacting to things I haven't said. This is where I question whether they really blame women or some third factor, probably of a "natural" essence that is not under human control.
I definitely agree it's unfair to blame women for things they're not responsible for, yet that doesn't mean what incels can do about themselves will account for success. To say they can't help themselves is not at all implying women are to endure the consequences but recognizing there might be a need to seek for other alternatives than keeping in denial about solutions that aren't completely working. We as a society have gone through different methods for dealing with deviant behavior (from eugenics to witchhunts), and our times of self-oppression might be as well just another stage of social control development.
My point is not to take for final any solution we might think as best to deal with any issue, no matter how personal involvements are in there.