thank you for your replies to this poster, Justafriend~! there are far too many examples of males requiring females to provide sexual services; prostitution is the least offensive of those, in my opinion. all of them are degrading and damaging to the females (children, even), at minimal cost to the males. this talk of 'incels' seems like another example of Darwinism, at work.

my spiritual teacher says: "the causes of suffering are: wanting what you don't have, and not wanting what you do have." i would add that blaming anything is a no-win strategy, and if one cannot change, then acceptance is the alternative.