(((((((((((((((((((((((((Kiya))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am sorry that you had such a hard time in t. It can be so easy to end up in a place that is not comfortable and a protective part comes out to protect you from percieved harm. I am glad that you and your t were able to work through it without you going into a censor lock down. It sounds like it got everyone upset and that is so hard and can take a while to settle things back down.

I am sorry I was not on last night when you posted. Know that you are in my thoughts. And feel free to PM me anytime. I hope you are feeling better today. Now you and your t know some things to watch out for and hopefully can prevent such a shake up again.

BB