I don't know how he would have knowledge my dislike of his fiance and children - unless, she is on this forum and has recognised herself and me from several threads I started. But yes I wonder. The only other reason is over this theft situation.

As an update, today (Thursday) I reached out to my father. I don't like pulling him into what may turn into a nasty situation but I was at a loss for what else to do. So now is the waiting game.