My old, ridiculous T did this hinting thing. It was wildly destabilizing as I wanted to do with problems in the HERE and NOW and he was heading back in time to the 1970s with his "theory." He told me "we have to clean the wound."

And I was like...what wound?

I have spent the better part of a lifetime dealing with my violent family history but it became very clear that he had an agenda and an idea that "there was more too it."

The relief that I feel about my current T (who isn't perfect) and her interest in dealing with YOUR LIFE AS IT STANDS NOW ....cannot be put into words.

As others have said proceed with caution. Your T should be dealing with the issues that you want to tackle at the pace you want to tackle them...That's just my opinion .