so I used to be friends with Ts wife on Facebook. we decided to unfriend bc boundary stuff (she wanted to)

any way I still have a lot of mutual friends with her on fb

last year I saw a post where ts wife commented abt being pregnant and the name they chose

t had not disclosed to me the pregnancy. he actually never really did directly. was just something that obviously came out when his baby was born (he texted me a photo of the baby on its birth day)

it was hard for me to say the least and I felt I shouldn't bring it up because he had not told me directly

so yeah it's hard sometimes with the Internet and different ways we can receive information about t

I try to avoid seeing stuff I know might trigger me