Perna~ Thanks for you reply !
I am learning the ones who trigger me .. sometimes it feels everyone is a trigger .. having to learn how to take care of myself when i am around them.
Side stepping is one i try to do often from triggering situations.
LOL at that song ... that would work for me - to laugh and such but he is a very serious type .. just makes me feel worse inside when i act silly . it angers him. Even if i draw a smiley sun in the snow ..or plm tree - whatever .. he cant stand that but helps me think spring in the winter