Sinking, there is always some hope, even the sliver that you are communicating in this forum. That means there is a hope, no matter how insignificant your mind is telling you. That is also the reason why I joined just yesterday.
Facts and truth are different. The fact is that you are indeed feeling. The truth is that there are people who care, even if it is just the one message you see from one of them today.
The fact is that the message may not change the situation you are currently facing, or the lack of significance that your mind is telling you that you lack, but the truth is that all people have significance. The messages, however, that you may see on these forums may help you to change your perspective.
Change your perspective, change your thoughts. I know it is easier said than done, as I struggle with that practice myself. Even if the significance that someone replies to your post is a start, it is still significant, right? If you see that, look for the next stepping stone, then the next. Waiting sucks, but each stepping stone is one more step to closing the gap between where you are now, and where you want to be.
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