Sorry to hear you're in a tough place.

Sinking, the definition of what's considered an eating disorder is simple. Are thoughts of food or, behaviours around food, having a serous impact on your life?

It seems like the answer is YES!

I have no idea why your T is being so useless. They just are sometimes. The fact that she runs an ana group is irrelevant (and frightening!). One of the worst therapists I saw had a reputation for being 'really good with young people'.

I'm a recovered anorexic / bulimic. You definitely can recover, sinking.

It will happen much sooner if you're being assisted by GOOD ED groups / medics. I've found that many feel completely stumped by anorexia etc.