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Old Jun 09, 2018, 04:01 PM
Jazz1971 Jazz1971 is offline
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Originally Posted by Lrad123 View Post
Yes, I don’t want him to focus on the FB search, so if I decide to bring it up I might just say that I found this information out, but I’d rather not discuss how I got the information. I think he’d actually be ok with that. Also, we live in the same community so it’s theoretically possible that we might have an acquaintance in common who might have mentioned the birth of his grandchild. Or maybe it’s all too complicated and I should just leave it alone.


People put information online that they are comfortable with people knowing. If they aren't, it shouldn't be shared. The mere act of looking him up and finding info is benign (unless you planned to do something with this info). It's normal to be curious about a person who shares so little yet knows so much about you. There is nothing that makes it fodder for therapy, really. Is there a specific reason you want to discuss it?