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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2
Yeah...I was always like what is their ulterior motive...always suspicious of....second guessing because the way we were raised was one of trickery and pain.
We were always there to care for other people while avoiding looking in at our own needs and wants.....
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Yes I totally relate to that. People say all these things where I tend to get this feeling like "you don't really mean that... you just want me to think you mean it." I don't like thinking like that but I have been let down when I tried to trust people and found out they did not really have my best interest in mind. In my FOO I was also manipulated and controlled a LOT. It has become really hard to trust.
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We just know we are multiple and are many for names are unimportant to us...we each have a job or function and most of us go by that label. Besides...most of us is triggered out before any real recognition can be asserted.
It takes all of us to make a single person to live through a day. Just knowing that this is why....the stress of not knowing fades away. I wish you peace of mind and soul. 
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Can I ask, was there a time for you before you had an awareness of the different parts? Did you just get a better sense over time of who is what?