thanks for the feedback
i get really confused about my parents sometimes. i think i was raised to see my dad as "bad" but with some distance i can see he was probably just losing his temper in response to being taunted or verbally harassed. i'm so confused. my mom has told me before that she hates men, which makes me question why the hell she got married in the first place. but i got raised to side with her, i think.