I too have this problem. I daydream a lot and when I am viewing situation from my doc's perspective, I wonder whether or not my mother is worse than my dad. It varies from time to time.

Since you mentioned you developed OCD and your mother, not understanding it is something she probably did, blamed you for trying to "hurt her." I think that it is that both of your parents fighting made you scared as a child, and like me, are still scared. Neurosis (anxiety and depression) is purely environmental it is thought.

You being emotionally detached from your parents is also a response to trauma, although it can be a symptom of various disorders. I suggest you to talk to your GP about seeing a therapist.


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