It's just my avenues for meeting people are so limited. I don't go out socially at all - just too socially phobic - and have never been able to approach someone I like anyway. Tried joining various activity groups but all the women in them are married or in relationships or otherwise unavailable. Apart from that the only women I come into contact with are at work and I see that as being out of bounds as I never compromise my working relationships. Most of the time even if I do meet someone I like I just think I am too messed up, why would they even be interested in me, so that's why I was looking for something online but dating sites seem to be pretty useless, everyone wants people without baggage.