My husband and I have a "date night" each week and I use to have my therapy nights be one of them because I wasn't in any sort of mood to to cook. We'd go out to eat. It's harder to argue when you are out at a restaurant, I think, both in a different atmosphere from home or the rest of one's day and in a pleasantly anticipatory frame of mind? It use to help clear my head and re-orient me to the outside world and my husband and rest of my life.