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Old Jun 11, 2018, 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Alchemy View Post

What I'm looking for is more a way to control myself or stop feeling so hurt over these things.

Oh and I believe a parent is responsible for their child's life and all forever! not just 18 years! Noone really chooses to be born :c
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I only know that it feels better to provide for myself than to be dependent and at the mercy of another. It's a valid suggestion to state that your emotional state of mind may feel better through being able to independently supply your desire for materialistic wants.

No, no you did not choose to be born. At the same time, you didn't will yourself not to survive once out of the womb. Do your parents know that you expect them to care for you until they pass away?