Brother and mother do not want me moving out. Mom doesn't want to live alone. Brother likes someone keeping an eye on her. He knows not ideal but says we both do better having a person around.

A subsidized apartment is approved and available. It's nice i saw it today. Mom even said it was nice. But now I have a womsn gathering info to get me in it and I'm not even sure i want it. Mom charges less rent nicer space, company. But she's bossy.

I need to do a pro cons list. This is a hard decision. I asked about where i would live when she dies. My brother said he'd use inheritance money to buy me a condo. Which eases my mind.

Still should i comply with family needs or do what will give me independance?